The Problem & the Solution are in Different Frequencies
Your Core Essence, your Higher Self, your Soul (whatever term resonates with you) is wise and has access to unlimited knowing and connection. You have the ability to tap into the answers to the questions that you are asking. This may not always seem evident because you may feel as if you are asking and asking and yet it doesn’t feel as if anything is forthcoming. Know that if you are asking and seeking then it is in response to the invitation your Core Essence is extending toward you to move into a different space. You are being called to move into alignment of self to Self to All to facilitate your ongoing expansion.
One of the reasons for feeling as if the answers aren’t readily available is because the problem and the solution are in different frequencies. In the moment of asking, the answer is there, however, it may not be apparent because you may not be in the space of the resolution yet. It may even be the case where something pops into your head right after you ask but you easily dismiss it because it seems implausible, too easy, unrelated or whatever reason you come up with for pushing it away. Essentially, you are not in resonance with the answer yet. You are not in sync with the Whole of you and of All.
This may lead you to feel that you are doing something wrong, that you are not intuitive, that you are stuck. Continuing to look in the direction of the undesirable situation - why did I do that, how do I make it better, why did they say that, what can I do, I feel awful, why aren’t they talking to me, why isn’t this getting better, I’ll never get this, they’ll never change, I’m such an idiot - perpetuates the maintenance of remaining in the space of the unpleasant frequency. The key to move beyond these thoughts and feelings is to allow your self to move into the vibration where the solutions live. It means you’ve got to take your attention off of anything that feels negative related to the situation and begin nourishing your self with thoughts that feel better. This creates an allowance for something different than where you’ve just been. The tendency is to not do this consciously but rather as a response to a dramatic and/or traumatic life altering event such as an ending of a relationship, job or an illness. It becomes nearly impossible to continue as one did. How much ‘easier,’ to instead, create the shift through awareness and conscious choices. However, no judgment for your self, if the change comes through the former. Your Self and all conspiring forces/ beings will assist you in getting to where you want to be in the most readily available manner (resonance) at any given moment.
In the quantum world, the Field is comprised of waves/frequencies. Whatever it is that you put your attention upon collapses into particles, into matter and into experiences. If that space is not one that you are enjoying then it is useful to take your attention off of that in order for the particles to become waves once again and place your self back into the field of possibilities. Intentionally, place your attention elsewhere in order to collapse the waves into a different experience. If your attention continues to be placed upon a situation which is problematic, even if it is the continual desire for a solution, then the focus is still problem oriented in the familiar past and you keep your self from a new destiny. It is important and necessary to step away from the constant analysis, searching, and quest for what to do regarding the difficult situation in order to collapse the wave function in a different portion of the Field. Do not be dismayed if you experience a bit of chaos as the energy bonds begin to weaken and come back to you with the potential of creating a new field of energy, the Unified Field, with which to create.
Shifting your attention elsewhere can be facilitated through meditation or contemplative thinking, essentially anything that allows your self to move into a space of receptivity. Another way to put this is to create allowance for your situation to move back into the space of possibilities. Utilizing sound or music that is at an alpha or theta frequency can assist in facilitating moving into this space more easily. It is common for many individuals to ask, ask, and search but not allow space and time to receive that for which they are seeking. Use whatever method or modality that seems to work best for you at any given point in time to help you shift into the space of opening and allowance. Initially, even focussing on something that distracts you from attending to the problem can be a useful bridge to transition into a different space from which to view a possible solution. In that bridging space may appear the steps to deal with any resistance or limitations from fully moving into the space of your desirings.
You are fully capable of doing this. Your mind and being are powerful. You can consciously choose that with which you nourish your mind, heart, body, and spirit. Be gentle and patient with your self as you practice ‘feeding’ your self with attention bytes that are life giving to you. Remember it is not about where you think you should be but rather about where you want or desire to be. Remove any judgment regarding where you are. Everything you have been and done has led you to this moment, here and now. You are perfectly posited to move even closer or right into that which you want to feel and be most at this point in time. Do your best to become comfortable with the state of being given to, supported and loved for you are worthy of this and so much more. This is so All-ways!