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December 27th, 2025

12/27/2025

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Discovering Your Purpose

You may have found your self asking questions such as “What’s my purpose?” “Why am I here?” “What’s the point?” These are fairly complex questions as there are many facets associated with what that means. At the most basic level, you are here to have experiences of various kinds.
Your Soul has choice, free will and intentions associated with Its own expansion. In this case, your Soul has chosen to express in the form of a crystalline projection, which is you, on this 3D/4D Earth plane. You are also imbued with the options of choice and free will.

In multidimensional beingness you agree to certain life themes in order for your Soul to know Itself more fully. Your purpose is to make choices based upon these themes. The themes don’t control you but rather serve as facets through which to have experiences. You become the wildcard in how these might be lived out because you do have free will. One way to understand your themes more clearly is to look at your life up to this point in time and see if there are any recurring circumstances. These may include abandonment, rejection, multiple major losses, overcoming, being happy within traumatic circumstances, being lucky, and many more.

Whatever the themes may be, there will be beliefs that have developed relative to the various experiences. These often have to do with not feeling to be enough, not allowing your self to fully express who you are and feeling unlovable. The conscious awareness of these thoughts and feelings may not be obvious, however, there will be behaviours and outcomes that indicate their presence.

If you are happy with the outcome then it is most likely that the associated beliefs are serving you well. You know that you are aligned more so with your Higher Self when you are feeling passionate, loving, curious, kind, appreciative or excited. The challenging growth opportunity is to bring those same feelings into situations that have previously triggered fear-based emotions.

If you end up feeling unhappy with what is occurring, then you have the opportunity to allow the beliefs to bubble to the surface in order for them to be transformed. Beliefs aren’t always obvious to the self otherwise you would change beliefs easily. There are a few questions to ask to assist in becoming more aware of what the underlying beliefs actually are. These questions include: “Why am I having this experience?” “What would I have to believe about myself (or another) to have this experience?”

You know you are more so aligned with your Higher Self when you are in the feeling good spectrum of emotions which will usually mean that your experiences feel more pleasant. Even when growth challenges arise, you won’t spend as much time in the angst of it, but rather you will more easily see it for the expansion opportunity that it provides. The learning potential is still there even if you spend more time in being triggered, feeling anxious, angry, frustrated and/or hopeless. At this time, most individuals still learn through conflict rather than good feeling scenarios.

All experiences are important and valid to your and your Soul’s expansion. It’s just a matter of whether you’d prefer to have more feel-good types of scenarios or unpleasant ones. Regardless, it’s important not to judge your choices but rather to allow to learn and grow to manage them in a more fulfilling way moving forward. You are not judged for your beliefs but rather encouraged to explore them in order to realize changes that feel more harmonious to your being.

It is important to know that when you begin to uncover the beliefs that no longer serve you that you want to ensure that you allow for the transition of belief systems. Perhaps you chose a profession based on what you thought you should do based on early conditioning of what would make you worthy/acceptable even though you don’t enjoy it. Life feels hard. You have the inspiration to do something different, something that feels much more exciting and interesting. On the practical level you may decide that quitting your job immediately is the best thing. You want to be sure that your belief system has shifted enough to support your new focus. If it doesn’t, then you might end up abandoning your new venture and in turn rejecting the idea that you are capable of making different choices to create a more fulfilling life. Depending on the circumstances, it may be beneficial to make a transition by continuing with the current job while simultaneously allowing for the creation of a new beginning.

An important key is to acknowledge the feelings and the underlying beliefs which are opening areas of awareness for transformation. Rather than falling into the usual patterns, respond differently than you have before to the typical circumstances or themes that tend to arise in your life. The more often you choose to do this, the better you will feel and the more consciously you will be aligned with your Higher Self and your life’s sense of purpose. This will allow you to continue to grow, supporting you, your Soul, Oversoul and All to know Itself better through the facets of your many choices and experiences. You are an integral and unique part of Creation Itself.

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December 10th, 2025

12/10/2025

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The Language of Your Higher Self

One of the ways to determine if you are communicating with your Higher Self versus your ego, is by how you feel. You know you are connected to your Higher Self when you are experiencing feelings such as passion, excitement, love or anything related to these feelings. The language which that part of you utilizes is inspiration, imagination and day dreaming. We often disregard these pursuits as useless as they don’t seem very productive. However, they are a wonderful use of time as they allow for the potential translation of energy into expression. When you feel excited, due to an inspired idea and it stimulates your creative juices to express what you imagined, then it is a way of bringing it into manifestation.
 
The tendency is to not trust that which feels good, however, your Higher Self loves you. It is always going to encourage you to be the fullness of who you are. It will never tell you that you are not good enough to do the very thing you feel inspired about or in which you are interested.  You know you are moving more so into ego when you start feeling negatively about your self because you begin running through the practical list of why whatever you had imagined is not possible, whether that be not enough time, money, intelligence or whichever reason appears. This discouragement leading to feeling bad about your self is one of your clues that you are moving away from the sense of connection with your Self. You can’t actually be disconnected from your Higher Self/Mind, but you can create the feeling as if you are.
 
This often leads you to not trust the inspired part of your Self because the ‘how’ isn’t always obvious in the moment. On the other hand, the reasons as to why something is not practically possible are readily available. This may feel safer because it seems more attuned to your current reality, even if it feels limiting compared to the excitement of the imaginings.
 
It is beneficial to find the balance between feeling the excitement, passion or heightened interest of the inspiration and what is practically possible in the moment. Allow your self to open to the devising of a plan that speaks to both the exciting idea as well as attending to the practicalities of your life as it is currently. It doesn’t have to be all or nothing in every moment, but rather layers of expressiveness. Your Higher Self will always encourage you to love and express your self to the greatest extent possible.
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