Life is Meant to be Fun
Many of you have been unwinding from the tensions of constrictions of long held bindings. There has been a sense of gravitas regarding this life that hasn’t been warranted. Fully living as your multidimensional self is about lightness and flexibility as you morph, expand, and evolve. What is possible can be met with expectant delight, knowing that you are meant to be pleased with your creations. Seriousness creates resistances, where as playful, curious discovery and exploration creates ease. You have been conditioned to take life seriously, face reality, get real, finish your homework first and then go out to play. All this has done is taught you that life isn’t fun and you have to earn your pleasure, and that you should feel guilty if you do experience enjoyment without putting in an effort first. As you’re learning, it goes counter to how manifestation actually occurs. The more you are attuned to your s(S)elf and All then the more enjoyable, fun, pleasurable, interesting, and fulfilling life is. It’s supposed to be that way, that easy.
Until it can consistently be that way for you, be aware of when you start to feel like you have to work for it, make it happen or get serious. You do not need to do more other than to allow Us more. We got this, ‘this’ being the spaces where you think you need to push, force, move more. Those are actually the places where it would be advantageous to allow. You will know that you are heading toward struggle as you begin to feel more doubtful, frustrated, and pessimistic. Typically, that has been a trigger to find the external source for this displeasure and in turn continue to perpetuate what is ‘wrong’ by looking for what is missing. You will always find for what you are looking. We remind you to look for what is well, interesting, curious, pleasurable, loving, calming, and satisfying. Keep expecting to see these things. It's a habit to see otherwise. You think you need to wear the glasses you've become conditioned to putting on, even though they impair your vision of your life and how life, as a whole, works.
Notice when you are getting serious and heading toward displeasure. Disarm your self with the weaponry to do ‘harm’ to your wellbeing when you are attempting to constrict your sense of connectivity to your s(S)elf. This will feel unpleasant every single time, resulting in unpleasant experiences. The more you begin to notice, the more you’ll be encouraged that your attunement and your focus really are the key to everything. Take note, in order to explore, of where in your thoughts and/or body you may feel the resistance toward what is being expressed in this writing.
In the meantime moments, as this tends to be a process on the human being level, acknowledge how far you’ve come. Do not let your self perseverate on what you feel is still not far enough, what is lacking, why you aren’t ‘there’ yet. This will not serve you well in any way, shape, or form. Step lightly, see gladly, listen expectantly, feel fully and continue to be wondrous just as you are in this moment, and the next, and the next……..
The Importance of Sensuality within Spirituality
Within spirituality the tendency is to focus upon connection with other dimension energies and beings. However, the concept of multidimensionality encompasses all levels of your being. It is important for your overall ongoing evolvement to connect with your physical self and enjoy the fact that you sense on many different levels, including the Earth plane.
Sensuality is often just associated with sexual pleasure. However, it is just one of the many ways that you may experience physical delight. As a human being you are in a biological form that senses and interacts with a multitude of vibrational expressions. Your body may be able to translate frequencies through sight, sound, smell, taste, touch and intuition and the ensuing meaning associated with these vibrations. It is one of the unique aspects of being a person on this planet and one of the many reasons you chose to be here. Unfortunately, the concept of being sensual has often taken on negative connotations, that in some way, it is the lesser of your self. It has often been encouraged to deny or deprive oneself of things that are enjoyable. There are many practices that suggest one can get closer to their Being of Faith through sacrificing foods or enjoyable activities in order to subjugate the physical self. This suggests that your physicality is not to be trusted and a potential deterrent to spiritual evolvement. Nothing could be further from the truth, as that which is pleasurable and feels good to the senses, enhances the attunement of self to Self to All.
Fully delight in your awareness of your senses and the pleasurable aspects that flow from this knowing. It is common to feel more connected and loving to s(S)elf, others and All when you are enjoying the pulsing colours of the dancing northern lights, or the sweet juiciness of a fresh peach, or the gentle caress of a warm sultry breeze, or the morning song of a meadowlark, or the sense of feeling love, or whatever it is that feels pleasurable to any of your senses. Those moments of a sense of connectivity and oneness are très chère. By trying to make your body the enemy, it limits your ability to fully encompass your multidimensionality. It makes it more challenging than it needs to be to function within your wholeness on a daily basis. As with all things, it is important to make a distinction of whether what is being physically sought through the senses comes from a stream of fear or love. The former, due to the associated behaviours, may reinforce judgments around the body being in opposition to the self, which is worthy of a different discussion.
It may be worthwhile to explore your thoughts and feelings on whether you are comfortable fully expressing and receiving through your senses. This may assist in enhancing your concept of your self to Self to All and your interaction with others. You are always an energy being. You came here to experience some version of being in a physical form as part of your evolvement as a spiritual being. Fully appreciate your physicality, as it is in this moment, knowing that it is also one of the routes to a sense of unity, connection and oneness. Do your best to enjoy the many facets of your multidimensionality in regard to this part of your energetic journey.
From Worry to Wholeness – A simple technique of what to do when someone you love is struggling
When you are fearful and don’t know what to do, then worrying is often the outcome. It feels more active than being afraid or anxious. It may give you the sense that you are doing something when you really feel powerless to do anything. The downside is that it tends to perpetuate further feelings of fear, anxiety and worry as you run through possible outcomes, which usually fall under worse case scenarios. To go from this state, to not worrying, is often unrealistic in the moment.
We all connect energetically, and then, physically. Most of us are not conscious of this order of events. Knowing this, can assist with a better use of time, than worrying, when feeling powerless. This technique can be useful if there is someone in your life that feels beyond your reach and entrenched in, what is perceived as, a self destructive behaviour. The norm is to see this person as having issues and in need of fixing. Holding this image of them resonates with the not enough, shameful or guilty feelings that they may have about themselves. The interactions, that typically follow, aren’t positive or constructive, as you both intersect in fear. When there is no communication occurring, or negative interactions, then it may be useful to take a break from whatever method you are using to talk to the person, and instead focus on engaging on the energetic level.
Begin by doing your best to move into a space of congruency with your self to Self to All (previous articles speak to this). If the worry prevents you from going right into that space then intend or visualize your self and the other person as your energetic selves. You may see each of you as you are, or orbs of light, or any other form or idea that comes to you. To the best of your ability, under whatever circumstances may be present, see them as whole in this form, not broken or in need of fixing. Hold a space of wholeness and compassion for them to energetically breathe into. Send them an energy of loving acceptance as they are, in that moment, not if and when.
This is understandably challenging when you know or can see them struggling and in pain. However, one of the most powerful things that you can do for another is to see them as whole, and in turn, compassionately assist in envisioning or intending this space of healing, where they can begin to attune to their unconditionally loving higher Self/ core essence. Feel free to communicate with the other in this energetic form. Trust what you sense. There may be fluctuations or days where it feels as if the energy between you is flowing, and other days when you may feel as if you are hitting a brick wall. In the case of the latter, feel free to gently send accepting loving energy and see/ intend for it to softly encompass the other and be there for when they are open to allowing it. The more you work with the person(s) you have chosen, in this manner, the more you may be surprised with what starts to happen in your actual physical level interactions.
There are other aspects of this process of functioning as a multidimensional being to work with another on a number of levels to create shifting and movement. However, exploring and practicing this one will allow for the opportunity to engage without the usual resistances.